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Jennifer Lata Rung is the author of multiple bridal books including The Idiot’s Guide to Being a Groom (now in its third edition); The Everything Creative Wedding Ideas Book; The Everything Bridesmaid Book; and The Idiot’s Guide to Being Father of the Bride. Currently she oversees content for Buffalo Brides magazine and the annual Buffalo Brides Wedding Planner.

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Grandeur on a Budget

ask jen by Amanda | posted on May 22, 2013 at 1:15pm

Dear Jen:

My wedding won’t be royal by any stretch of the imagination. How do I make it memorable on a budget?

- Amanda, Cheektowaga


The Speeches

ask jen by Rachel | posted on March 14, 2013 at 10:13am

Dear Jen,

I’m concerned the best man is going to give an inappropriate wedding toast. What should I do?

Rachel, Buffalo


Wedding Gift Woes

ask jen by Mike | posted on May 10, 2013 at 11:18am

Dear Jen,

What is an appropriate amount to spend on a wedding gift? Can I give cash instead of a gift?

Mike, West Seneca


To Theme or Not to Theme

ask jen by Missy | posted on February 18, 2013 at 10:26am

Dear Jen,

I’m thinking of having a theme wedding. Is this a good idea?

Missy, Lockport


Filling the Candy Buffet

ask jen by Debra | posted on January 09, 2013 at 9:59am

Dear Jen,

Where can I purchase candy for the candy buffet table that I will be putting together myself.

Debra


Wedding Toast Woes

ask jen by Rachel | posted on November 30, 2012 at 2:56pm

Dear Jen,

I’m concerned the best man is going to give an inappropriate wedding toast. What should I do?

- Rachel, Buffalo


Choosing the wedding party

ask jen by Kristin | posted on October 25, 2012 at 11:46am

I’m in the process of choosing my bridesmaids. There’s one girl who I feel I’m expected to ask because two years ago she asked me to be in her wedding — but I really don’t want to. What should I do?

Kristin, Amherst


The Out of Town Wedding Guest Welcome

ask jen by Ellie | posted on June 13, 2012 at 2:11pm

Dear Jen,

We are having a lot of wedding guests come in from out of town. What should we do for them?

Ellie, Buffalo


Family Presures

ask jen by Rebecca | posted on January 13, 2012 at 11:08am

Dear Jen,

My mother is pressuring me to do things her way. But I have my own ideas. How do I plan a wedding without starting World War III?

Rebecca, Cheektowaga


Matching Bridesmaids

ask jen by Tish | posted on December 07, 2011 at 10:09am

Hey Jen,

I'm have a variety of beautiful shape and size bridesmaids; from one who is about a size 2 to one who is a size 22. Years ago I saw an catalog which had all different styles of the same length dress - but the dresses were all the same fabric and monochromatic color scheme - I thought…


Appropriate Engagement Party Gifts

ask jen by Stephanie | posted on October 25, 2011 at 3:40pm

Dear Jen,

My cousin is getting married next year and my family has been invited to her engagement party. What would be an appropriate gift?

- Stephanie, Buffalo


How much is too much?

ask jen by Kinley | posted on September 22, 2011 at 11:17am

Dear Jen:

I recently had one of my final dress fittings and I decided to bring some jewelry along to see how it all fit together.I tried on earrings a necklace, two bracelets and a few rings. Also, Instead of a veil I'll be wearing a tiara in my hair. It all went together nicely but I can't…


Prenup?

ask jen by Chelsea | posted on September 22, 2011 at 10:41am

Dear Jen:

I am getting married in six months and my parents have been pressuring me to talk to my fiance about signing a prenuptial agreement. They'll be passing along a sizeable inheritance on to me, and want to be sure I'm protecting all of my assets. I feel so uncomfortable about this. I know…


Rehearsal Dinner How To

ask jen by Erin | posted on September 22, 2011 at 10:31am

Dear Jen:

I have never been to a rehearsal dinner before - what actually happens? I want to have one but I am not sure what to do.

Erin, Buffalo


Color Schemes

ask jen by Lisa | posted on September 22, 2011 at 9:55am

Dear Jen:

I have a big picture in my head of what I want my wedding day to look like, but am having trouble incorporating color. The theme we want for our wedding is red roses. I want myself and my girls to be carrying bouquets of red roses, but I don't know what color to put my girls in. I'm…


Who’s Invited?

ask jen by Casey | posted on September 20, 2011 at 3:47pm

Dear Jen,

My maid of honor is throwing a shower for me, and she asked my mother and future mother-in-law for a list of potential guests to invite. My fiancé and I are planning a pretty small wedding (we are paying for it ourselves), and my mother-in-law listed many people who will not make the…


Family Matters

ask jen by Stephanie | posted on September 20, 2011 at 3:22pm

Dear Jen,

Our wedding is scheduled for next September and we’ve booked the venue, caterer, DJ and pretty much everything else. My fiancé’s sister just got engaged – and set her wedding date for two weeks before ours! I feel like they’re stealing our thunder, not to mention making it hard…


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